Ok, let's imagine you meeting the person of your dreams. Let's say they had everything you ever wanted in a person. They have the personality you wanted, the looks, the charm, the legs and everything else. It's a real dream come true for you. You cannot believe how lucky you were. So, you take a step back and think to yourself, how in the heck did I find this person and where did they come from. Do stories like the one above, happen? Sometimes they do but mostly not. Most people are lucky to meet just anybody let alone the person of their dreams. Do we tend to settle sometime? Sure, a lot of us do. So many people are so unhappy in their marriage and relationships that it's almost out of control. So, what do you do to be happy and have love and good feelings day after day? Well, you could find the person you desire most. Take some time and think what it is you want in a person. Don't just think looks, personality and money. Those things are all fine and you do need to consider them. However what if you thought about other things that you desire. Things like how you really like tall people. Now make sure this is something you really desire. Because if it is. Then you should put it on your list of what you are looking for. How can you ever be truly happy if you do not find what it is that you truly want? It's crazy. People all the time get married and then start complaining a year or two later about the other. They tell people things that the other doesn't have or cannot do. This is crazy talk. You need to be happy and only you can choose that. So, you need to write down on a sheet of paper what it is you are looking for in a mate. The key here is to be very specific. Now, keep in mind that not everyone is perfect. We all have flaws. But, if you list down what it is that you want in a person and then go after it. What do you think you will get? Well, well all get more of what we concentrate on. If you concentrate on good and only good, you will most likely get more good in your life. So when you think about whom it is that you want in your life. Try thinking a little about what you desire in someone. See, as humans we all have means to an end. There is just no way around it. This is not a bad thing. It just means we know what we want. So if you take the time to think about what it is you really want in a person, you could maybe be very happy the rest of your life. Think of it this way. Did you ever have a friend who went through a very bad relationship and said next time I am taking applications? You probably laughed at them. But think about that for a second. What if you had to have a red headed person in your life? This was an ultimate desire of yours. Well why not go t and try to find it. You see, if you try to please your self a little more you can be very happy for the rest of your life! |
